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Bee or wasp? How to tell them apart, and what to do if you get stung
In late summer and autumn, at the market, on the terrace or under the vine arbour, something is often buzzing around the fruit, the soft drinks or your slice of bread and honey. Most of the time it isn’t a bee but a wasp. It’s worth learning the difference: the two behave differently, and you need to do different things if a swarm or a nest turns up near you.
How to recognise a honey bee
The honey bee is stocky and densely hairy, with a dull, brownish-orange colour and less sharp stripes. You can often see a coloured lump of pollen on its hind legs. It goes from flower to flower collecting nectar and pollen – it’s rarely interested in human food, except for sweet things.
The most common wasps in Hungary, such as the common wasp and the German wasp, are almost hairless and shiny, with a bright yellow-and-black pattern and a clearly visible “wasp waist”. Flying with dangling legs is only typical of paper wasps; most wasps tuck their legs against their body, so this isn’t a reliable sign. The European hornet is much bigger, brownish-red and yellow, and flies even at dusk – and on moonlit nights.
Why do wasps come in autumn?
Unlike a bee colony, a wasp colony only lives for one year. In spring and early summer, the workers mostly hunt insects, because the larvae need protein. By late summer the colony stops growing, but the wasps need a lot of sugar: that’s when they appear on fallen fruit, at bins, on soft-drink cans and at market stalls. In winter the colony dies, and only the young, mated queens survive; in spring they start new nests.
A honey bee colony, on the other hand, lives on from year to year, getting through the cold of winter huddled in a cluster – you can read more in our article on the life of a honey bee colony.
Wasps are actually useful: as predators they eat aphids and caterpillars, and according to a 2021 scientific review they have been observed visiting the flowers of nearly a thousand plant species.
The sting: once or many times?
A worker bee’s sting is barbed, so it gets stuck in human skin. When the bee tries to fly off, the sting tears out of its body together with the venom sac, and the bee dies. A wasp’s sting is smooth, so it can sting several times.
A bee sting left in the skin keeps pumping venom for roughly half a minute to a minute, so the most important thing is to get it out as quickly as possible. Health advice says to scrape it out sideways with a fingernail or the edge of a card, not with tweezers. A small 1996 experiment found that speed matters more than method – so don’t go looking for tweezers, scrape it out straight away.
If you’ve been stung
Most stings hurt, turn red and swell up, but settle down within a few days. According to an allergist at Semmelweis University in Budapest, 0.4–0.8% of children and about 3% of adults are allergic to bee or wasp venom, and for them a single sting can cause a severe reaction. What to do first:
- If a bee stung you, scrape the sting out straight away.
- Cool the area with a cold, wet compress or an ice pack wrapped in cloth for at least 20 minutes.
- Call 112 (the emergency number in Hungary and across the EU) immediately if there is difficulty breathing, wheezing, swelling of the lips, tongue or throat, difficulty swallowing, dizziness, fainting, or hives spreading over the whole body.
- A sting in the mouth or throat needs urgent medical help even if the person isn’t allergic, because the swelling can block the airway.
- Anyone who has been prescribed an adrenaline auto-injector by a doctor should always carry it and use it if stung.
How to avoid getting stung
A few simple rules:
- Don’t swat or wave your arms about. If a wasp lands on you, wait for it to fly off, or brush it away gently.
- Don’t squash a wasp near you: the scent released by a crushed wasp attracts the others too.
- Outdoors, cover food and drinks, and pour canned drinks into a glass so you can see what you’re drinking.
- Pick up fallen fruit and keep the bin closed.
- Leave nests alone. If you’ve been stung near one, move away quickly.
Who to call: a beekeeper or pest control?
A swarm of bees is collected by a beekeeper – you can read about this in a separate article. Removing a wasp nest, however, is a job for pest control, not for a beekeeper. The website of OMME, the Hungarian Beekeepers’ Association, has contact lists for both (in Hungarian).
The Asian hornet, which is on the EU list of invasive species, was first caught in Hungary in August 2023, in Kimle, a village in the north-west of the country. According to the Hungarian Natural History Museum, it’s no more dangerous to people than the native European hornet, but it readily hunts honey bees. OMME has been monitoring it with a network of traps since 2024, and nationwide from 2026. No further occurrence in Hungary has been confirmed since: not a single specimen was caught in the traps in the 2025 season, and reports from the public all turned out to be European hornets.
Two common misconceptions:
- “The hornet is protected.” Not in Hungary. The myth may come from the fact that the large mammoth wasp and several bumblebee species really are protected.
- “Three hornet stings can kill a person.” This is a rumour known all over Europe, but it isn’t true: for a healthy person, a single hornet sting is no more dangerous than any other wasp sting. The real dangers are allergy, a very large number of stings, and stings in the mouth or throat.
Terms from the glossary
Sources
- UC IPM – yellowjackets and other social wasps
- University of Illinois Extension – wasps in the garden
- Penn State Extension – European paper wasp
- UC Davis – why honey bees die when they sting
- Visscher et al., The Lancet (1996) – removing the sting
- NHS – insect bites and stings
- Semmelweis University – bee and wasp stings (in Hungarian)
- Brock, Cini and Sumner, Biological Reviews (2021) – the value of wasps
- Kelber et al., PLoS ONE (2011) – the night-flying hornet
- Decree 13/2001 (KöM) – protected species in Hungary (in Hungarian)
- Hungarian Natural History Museum – about the Asian hornet (in Hungarian)
- OMME – Asian hornet monitoring map (in Hungarian)
- OMME – report on the work of 2025 (March 2026) (in Hungarian)
- OMME – nationwide trap network (February 2026) (in Hungarian)
- OMME – swarm collection and wasp control (in Hungarian)
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